Friday, October 5, 2007

the intensity of miscommunication

well i have to admit it's a season of losing your loved ones or maybe the beginning of new relationships. i firmly believe nothing remains the same forever. now i understand the meaning of miscommunication...how intense it is and how it changes your life forever. this is exactly what happened between my friend and i...she refused to listen and i refused to explain. i thought how arrognant and stubborn she is for not listening and blah..blah....!!!! at this point in life i showed some maturity...i remained quiet and made the class believe she is right and i am wrong. there is no point in blaming one another. getting supporters would obviously mean to one person that she is wrong and the situation would worsen. so i was smart enough to back out. i wish she could have clarified her doubts rather than react aggressively right away but that is not my grudge. i felt hurt when she said i was dominating...me and dominating doesn't go together. anyways, i have now decided to bury the friendship.
so guys out there...be calm and clarify the doubts before you get violent.

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